Monday, March 11, 2013

"LOVE" Matters most!

In February, our Relief Society had a weekday meeting on visiting teaching.   Jessica Maughn, our Relief Society President, asked me to give a message on love.  I began the message with a video by Thomas S. Monson entitled,  "What Matters Most".    Then we talked about how important LOVE is in our visiting teaching because PEOPLE matter most!  (I hope you'll click on this link and watch this short 3 minute clip before you read on.  It's really worth it!)


So this video might make you think of your family…but it can also make you think of visiting teaching. 

 Shakespeare said,  "They do not love that do not show their love." 

As visiting teachers, we need to show those we visit teach that we truly love them.  Love is spoken throughout scriptures, through out our modern revelations—at General Conference and wherever we go.


That’s pretty powerful when you think about it….ALL the law and prophets hang on these 2 commandments—TO LOVE.  
I believe all things can be accomplished through love.  
Whatever we do we should do it with love!

October conference in 2009:  Pres. Uchtdorf:  We are created in the image of our heavenly parents; we are God’s spirit children. Therefore, we have a vast capacity for love—it is part of our spiritual heritage. What and how we love not only defines us as individuals; it also defines us as a church. Love is the defining characteristic of a disciple of Christ.

Jesus Christ showed his love to his disciples before he was crucified by washing their feet.  He said: 14 If I then, your Lord and aMaster, have bwashed your feet; ye also ought to cwash one another’s dfeet.
 15 For I have given you an aexample, that ye should do as I have done to you.

Then as Jesus continued he said,  34 A new commandment I give unto you, That ye alove one another; as I have loved you, that ye also blove one another.  
 35 By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have alove one to another.(John 13)

So from Pres. Uchtdorf  to Pres. Monson and to Jesus Christ we learn that LOVE is a very important and powerful attribute and characteristic.  True visiting teaching is done with love.

Former General Relief Society President, Julie B. Beck said, “Because we follow the example and teachings of Jesus Christ, we value this sacred assignment to love, know, serve, understand, teach and minister in His behalf.”

I am a mother of 4 grown daughters whom I love with my whole heart and I still worry about their well-being.  I often wonder if there is a visiting teacher that is taking caring of their needs that I cannot meet.  Each of you has a mother who loves you. And I am sure that they pray for your well-being and are asking Heavenly Father to send a good visiting teacher to their daughter’s side.   

I don’t worry so much about my daughters that are here close by. I see them every week.  But my daughter who lives in Arizona?  She is so far away and I don’t get to be with her very often.  I worry the most about her and hope that she has someone close by who loves her the way I love her or the way her sisters love her.

As a visiting teacher you can be an answer to a mother’s prayer.  You are an instrument in God’s hands.

How do we show love to those we visit teach?

If we look to the Savior He set the example throughout his mortal ministry.

He showed us by example how to show love to those around us in everything He did. 

When He talked with the Samaritan woman who was getting water at the well.
When He visited Mary and Martha in their home and taught them how to be disciples. 
When He came when he heard Lazarus was ill only to find that he had died so He raised him from the dead. 
When He forgave the adulteress woman when everyone else wanted her to be stoned. 
When He fed the multitudes with 5 loaves of bread and 2 fish.

After his resurrection he visited the Nephites and he had them come to him one at a time to feel the nail prints in his hands; He blessed the sick, the needy, the sad, the lonely, and he did it one by one—individually.  He wept with them and showed compassion on them.  He loved them outwardly. 

We are members of Jesus Christ’s Church.  It is a world wide and very large church.

The only system which could provide succor and comfort across a church so large in a world so varied would be through individual servants near the people in need.


As we visit teach we are to succor and strengthen and love.  We are to be friends with those we have been assigned to watch over.  We need to pray for them and be aware of them.  Sister Beck has said, she prays every day for those that she visit teaches.  What a great way to show her love for them.

Let’s be specific:  What are things you can do to show your visiting teachers you love them?

Ideas:   
be a friend,
talk to them outside of visiting teaching,
invite them to hang out with you,
take her treats,
make her a meal,
help her when she’s overwhelmed—do her dishes, help her with an assignment,
sit with her in church,
text her messages,
bear your testimony,
prepare the message to fit her needs.

Let the Holy Ghost guide you in the best way to help your sisters.  It’s the simple things that make the biggest difference. 

NEVER LET A PROBLEM TO BE SOLVED BE MORE IMPORTANT THAN A PERSON TO BE LOVED!  
Thomas S. Monson